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時間：2020-07-07
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In
China,
there is an old
saying:
every family has
their issue, the
parents and
their children’s
problems exist all the time. It
seems that
parents and
their children can
never get
along peacefully,
their communication barrier comes to be
obvious since the
children come to
their adolescence, this
situation happens in many
reasons.在中國，有一句方言“家家都有本難念的經(jīng)”, 父母和孩子間的問題總是一直存在。似乎父母和孩子永遠(yuǎn)都不能好好地相處，他們的溝通障礙打從孩子來到青春期就更加的明顯，這樣的情形發(fā)生是有很多原因的。On the one hand, the
children have come to the
adolescence, they
desire to be
independent and get away from
their parents’
protection. The age of
adolescence means the
children have
grown up, they are no more the
small kids, they want to make
their own
decision, so they
become rebellious and go
against what they
parents tell them to do. They do this for the
purpose of
proving that they are
grown-ups.一方面，孩子已經(jīng)來到了青春期，他們渴望獨立，脫離父母的保護(hù)。青春期意味著孩子已經(jīng)長大，他們不再是小孩子，他們想要自己做決定，所以他們變得叛逆，和父母叫他們?nèi)プ龅膶χ伞Ｋ麄冏鲞@些是想要證明他們已經(jīng)是大人了。On the
other hand, most
parents take
their children as the
small kids all the time. In most
parents’ eyes,
their kids will be
always kids, no
matter how old they are, the
parents still treat their children as the
small ones, so they will make
every decision for
their kids. The
parents refuse to
accept the fact that
their children have
grown up and can make
their decision, so the
communication barrier happens.另一方面，大部分的父母一直把他們的孩子當(dāng)做小孩子來看待。在大部分父母的眼里，他們的孩子永遠(yuǎn)長不大，無論他們多大，父母仍然當(dāng)他們的孩子是小時候的孩子，所以他們會為他們的孩子做所有的決定。父母拒絕接受孩子已經(jīng)長大的事實，自行做決定，所以溝通的障礙才會發(fā)生。The
communication barrier between children and
parents is very
family’s
problem, the
parents should learn to let go
gradually and the
children can have a nice talk to
their parents, thus the
problem can
better solved.父母和孩子間溝通的障礙是每個家庭的問題，父母應(yīng)該學(xué)著去慢慢放手，孩子應(yīng)該和他們的父母好好談?wù)劊@樣問題才能更好地解決。
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