n.逢迎；討好

But how to strike the balance between charm and ingratiation? 不過，如何在展現(xiàn)魅力與奉迎討好之間達(dá)到平衡呢？

My mother has the projective relationship of power and ingratiation. 將逆境看成“因”，省思將來可能產(chǎn)生的“果”，激發(fā)自己的潛能。

Ingratiation is that you show you unction which would make other people feel uncomfortable and have defensive feeling. 逢迎是虛情假意，那會造成別人的戒心和不舒服。

ingratiation n. 逢迎;討好;