類型:英語閱讀
時間:2020-07-31
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Chinese parents are
believed to be the most
responsible parents in the
world, they
would do
anything for
their kids, such as
washing their clothes and
cleaning their bedroom just to let the
children have more time to
study. When the
children grow up, the
parents are
willing to buy a
house for them.
While in the
western countries, when the kids are
above 16,
parents expect them to move out,
because both of them need
personal space. I
think there should be some
distance between the old and the
young, or the overprotection will do
nothing good for both
sides. It is
important to
learn to be
independent for the
children.
Distance can
create the
chance to let them
learn to deal with
their stuffs and
become mature.
Parents should let go in the
right time. 中國的父母被認為是世界上最負責任的父母,因為他們愿意為他們的孩子做任何事,比如給孩子們洗衣服,打掃臥室,只是為了讓孩子們有更多的學習時間。當孩子們長大了,父母愿意給他們買房子。而在西方國家,當孩子們16歲以后,父母就希望他們搬出去,因為雙方都需要私人空間。我認為老一代和年輕人之間應該有一定距離,否則過度的保護對雙方都不好。對孩子來說重要的是要學會獨立,距離可以創(chuàng)造機會,讓他們學會處理自己的事情,變得成熟。父母應該在恰當?shù)臅r間放手。
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