類(lèi)型：英語(yǔ)閱讀
時(shí)間：2020-07-13
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There is a
tendency in our
society that
parents prefer to say “yes” to
their children’s
request. Do you
think it is
beneficial for the
growth of
children?
Different people have
different opinions. Some will
agree with it,
while some will
against it. For me, I
think this is not a
simple question, and we must view the
problem in its
entirety. 我們的社會(huì)有一種趨勢(shì)，那就是父母偏向肯定孩子的要求。你認(rèn)為這有利于孩子們的成長(zhǎng)嗎？不同的人有不同的看法。有些人會(huì)贊成，但是有些人則會(huì)反對(duì)。對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)，我認(rèn)為這不是一個(gè)簡(jiǎn)單的問(wèn)題，我們要全面地看待。For one
thing,
children need to be sure in
their growing up.
Children are so
immature that they do not
experience too much.
Their inside hearts are very
fragile. They need to be sure. When they are
doing one
thing, if they
receive the
affirmation from
adults, they will be full of
confidence and have the
thought to have
another try next time. But if the
adult always deny
their thought or
behavior, they will lose
their confidence, and even do not dare to have a try
later. Thus,
proper affirmation is good for the
growth of
children.一方面，孩子們需要在被肯定的情況下成長(zhǎng)。孩子們那么的不成熟，因?yàn)樗麄儾](méi)有經(jīng)歷過(guò)什么。他們的內(nèi)心是很脆弱的。他們需要得到肯定。當(dāng)他們?cè)谧鲆患聲r(shí)，如果他們得到大人的肯定，他們會(huì)滿懷信心，會(huì)有下次繼續(xù)嘗試的想法。但如果大人總是否認(rèn)他們的想法或行為，他們就會(huì)失去信心，甚至以后都不敢再?lài)L試。因此，適當(dāng)?shù)目隙▽?duì)孩子的成長(zhǎng)是好的。For
another, too much
affirmation will
spoil children. As the one
child policy puts into
effect, most
parents will
spoil their unique children more,
because they are the
apple of
their parents’ eyes. If the
adult always say “yes” to
their children’s
request,
their children will
become little princess and
little prince. In the long term, they will form
negative habit, such as,
selfish,
arrogant and so on. It is not good for the
growth of
children.另一方面，過(guò)多的肯定會(huì)寵壞孩子。由于獨(dú)生子女政策的實(shí)行，大多數(shù)父母都會(huì)更加寵愛(ài)他們唯一的孩子，因?yàn)樗麄兪歉改傅恼粕厦髦?。如果大人總是首肯孩子們的?qǐng)求，他們的孩子會(huì)成為小公主和小皇帝。從長(zhǎng)期來(lái)看，他們會(huì)形成不良的習(xí)慣，例如，自私，自大等等。這是不利于兒童的成長(zhǎng)。To sum up,
green light all the way for
children is not
always right.
Adults should figure it out when
should say “yes” and when
should say “no”. They can’t
always say yes or no to
their children.綜上所述，對(duì)孩子們一路紅燈并不總是正確的。大人應(yīng)該弄清楚什么時(shí)候該說(shuō)同意，什么時(shí)候該反對(duì)。他們不能總是支持或者反對(duì)他們的孩子。
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