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時間:2022-05-09
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In
China,
being a
parent means a lot of
responsibilities. Most
parents get used to
planning all the
things for
their kids, such as
arranging schools and even the
marriage. As the overprotection from the
adults, the kids lack of
strong will and rely on
others so much.
Parents should pay
attention to help the kids
become independent.在中國,成為父母意味著許多責(zé)任。大多數(shù)父母習(xí)慣于為孩子安排好一切,比如安排好學(xué)校,甚至婚姻。由于大人們的過度保護(hù),孩子們?nèi)狈?jiān)強(qiáng)的意志,過于依賴他人。父母應(yīng)該注意幫助孩子變得獨(dú)立。
Firstly,
never worry about the
mistakes that
children may make. As they are
young and full of
energy, they are so
eager to
experience new
things. The old
parents always stop them to try, for
avoiding getting hurt. But
mistakes help them to grow up, for
example, if a
small kid
never touch the hot pot, he will
never have the idea how hot it is, no
matter how many
times they have been told.首先,不用擔(dān)心孩子可能會犯錯誤。因?yàn)樗麄兡贻p、充滿活力,他們很渴望體驗(yàn)新事物。老一輩的父母總是為了讓他們避免受傷而阻止他們進(jìn)行嘗試。但是錯誤能幫助他們成長,例如,如果一個小孩子從未碰到熱鍋,無論他被告知多少次他都永遠(yuǎn)不知道鍋有多熱。
Secondly, when
children ask for help, just
offer them
little help
instead of
doing everything for them. When
children meet
problems, they will
think of
their parents immediately. The wise
parents will
guide the
children to
solve problems. They
expect their children can
learn the skills and
solve the same
trouble by
themselves next time.其次,當(dāng)孩子們尋求幫助時,僅僅為他們提供一些幫助,而不是為他們做好一切。當(dāng)孩子遇到問題時,他們會第一時間想到父母,明智的父母會引導(dǎo)孩子解決問題,他們希望他們的孩子可以學(xué)習(xí)到技能,下次自己解決同類型的問題。
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